"About how fast were the cars going when they ____ each other?"
Choose the verb the questioner uses:
Why it works. Memory is reconstructive, not a recording. A leading question slips new information into the gap, and the brain files it as part of the original event. Elizabeth Loftus named this the misinformation effect (Loftus & Palmer, 1974) — and it is why eyewitness testimony can be so confidently wrong.